While selecting sex positions, thinking of the fact of whether you are fucking with or without a condom, is important. Remember, some positions might be too dangerous for a condom due to the fact that they increase condoms' vulnerability, as some causes condoms to dry very fast, or even insert too much pressure that causes condoms to break. Therefore, you need to keep on rewetting your condoms using lubricants more often, depending on how fast your position is drying your condom.
#316. Low doggy
Similarly, you need to re-change your condoms regularly based on the degree of vulnerability caused by your position.
However, some men refuses the idea of using lube during sex, as they believe women should always be wet during sex. If not, then she isn’t horny enough.
#446. Bomb
False. Dryness during sex is caused by many factors!
Among them are woman’s age, the phase of her menstrual cycle, and the nature of sex itself such as foreplay, position and the type of sexual activities being conducted as stimulants.
#395. Dirty sanchez
Classic Doggy Style
Over 70% of men have declared their love for doggy style, as it is their ultimate favourite position.
And those are men who like booty, those who like seeing women’s behind more than anything during sex, while fucking; from behind is a must! Some love ass to a point of even forget that the woman they are fucking could have a beautiful face, thick lips and big natural teats, which could also turn them on, if they wanted to!
Some even don’t care about blow-jobs or foreplay as they just want to see that ass and fuck from behind no matter how!
#140. Doggy Style
Variation of Doggy Style
As there's more than one way to skin a cat, there is no such thing as 'a doggy style'!
One thing for sure, there are multiple of ways of fucking from behind. Prototypically, if you are a ‘from behind fucker,' you can start with the classical doggy style which you broaden out, based on your sexual innovation, sexual creativeness and sexual flexibility.
All the styles of doggy are possible depending on your body type, healthy, shape, fitness and stamina.
Also, your willingness to try new things and your sex-partner’s body shape, size and fitness, and her willingness to try new things, as well, not forgetting your ability to connect the dots very fast in interchanging from one position to another without having to think too much, also determines how many of Kama Sutra styles of doggy you are capable of doing.
Image: Adopted from sexpositions.club
But how many of these positions make sense in a sex that both sex partners can enjoy?
In a sex scenery, once you have finished the oral sex, the foreplay, one thing you think about is how to start the penetration, especially, the position to start the sex with. Some prefer to start straight with their favourite positions, without having ‘to beat around the bush,’ in particular those who have the phobia of ‘ejaculating too early' that they don’t want to cum before having tried their favourite position.
But, if you love doggy style as your favourite position, which turns you extremely on; does it make sense to start with it?
#459. Passive doggy
The point is, never start with the object of your affections, your ultimate position, if you want a long lasting sex.
Why?
Favourite Position
If you start sex with your favourite position, you might end up cumming too early or too fast because the position turns you on the most and most men want a long lasting sex, unless they only have time just for a quickie. Another point is, if you keep on starting with your favourite position, you’ll soon neutralise it, in that, it will soon no longer be your highlight, hit, hottest peak position. When that happens you can no longer use it to make you cum whenever you want or have to cum, after having enjoyed enough sex or when you are having time pressure.
#312. Jamaican cocktail
A highlight position is the ‘apple of your eye’ position, the one which turns you on the most, that the moment you are ready to cum or have to cum, you can implement it and cum very fast.
Actually, good sex is not fast-tracked, but the one that start like a car drive. You start with gear number one, then after accelerating a little, you move to gear number two, then speed up to gear number three, then number four and climax with the highest one, which is gear number five. The ultimate.
So having sex is like driving a car!
#388. Need for speed
In the same way, in sex, your gears are your position and the sex activities you start with.
Use the bottom-up strategy of starting with your least interesting position (unless you need the most interesting one to push your erection to the limit), then the second least interesting and go on until you come to end the sex with the most interesting sex position, which if doggy, then doggy should end the sex with a bang!
On Your Knees or Standing?
Once you decide you are going for a doggy style, you need to decide how to position yourselves.
First of all, shortly before penetrating, whether you decide to do doggy on your knees or while standing (where you can start with kneeling and end with standing, for practical reasons), let your woman give you a blowjob on her knees while you are standing, the Plumber or Zeus position.
And best is you fucking her mouth instead of her sucking your dick. It’s hornier!
You can also kneel and she on her fours or kneeling, as well, respectively like the Plumber position. These positions are less complicated and especially if you have a mirror behind her to enjoy the view of her ass while she is sucking. They are also interesting because they help push your erection to the limit before penetrating.
Both of these positions are good for erection because your blood is circulating better and faster in comparison to when you are lying down since you have enough blood on your dick that you have a faster and better erection, perfect for penetration.
#448. Orgazmic penetration
Legs Positioning
As you start penetrating, deciding who is going to be where is also important.
Who is going to be on the inside and who is going to be on the outside? Is she going to be on the inside or is he going to be on the inside.
#391. Ebony
Actually, most people think it is standard for women’s legs to be on the outside during doggy, as is it widens their asses, to make magnificent view for men’s seduction and fantasies. However, it might be unpractical once the sex partners have bigger height gaps.
#249. Mature lady
The decision on who to be where is based on these four doggy style determinants, regardless of whether standing or on the knees:
Heights differences
Body shapes
Flexibility
Penis size
#359. Pterodactyl
How and why:
If a man is much taller than the woman, where there is a bigger height gap between their genitals while both are on their doggy starting position, whether on the knees or standing, the guy need to be on the outside. He can kneel behind her so that her both legs are between his legs. Like that, he can slide his legs apart to lower his genitals to match her genitals' height, as her both legs are on the inside. He can then grip his partner over the waist, moving his hips, and pulling her closer and closer to him.
The tighter her legs are, the higher her genitals becomes, and vice verser.
#30. Excavations
If the woman is much taller than the guy where there is a big gap between their genitals, as well, while they are both on their knees, she need to be the outside and his legs between hers as she slides her legs apart to lower her genitals to match his genitals' height, while he stays on the inside.
#140. Doggy Style
If both are more or less on the same heights where both genitals' heights can match, either can be on the inside or outside, as it doesn’t matter. It would depend on the preference and the shape of the woman’s ass. Also what the guy likes to see during doggy, or even the length of his penis or even how she likes her doggy.
#322. Сanadian
Hands Position On Doggy
#280. Doggy on the edge
Always have your hands for support on your woman’s waist or butt, but do not fuck doggy free hands. Your hands must hold her. She is not a piñata, remember...
...and once you have your hands on her, do not use them to pull her to and fro. Use them only to support yourself or caress her, as you are the one to move back and forth fucking!
In short, you are the pitcher and she is the catcher!
Penis-Length-Management
If the guy has a long penis, placing the woman in the middle would reduce the length and therefore lessen the pain. This is because, she is more flexible to move and reposition to adapt herself to the length, and pain.
Also, the probability that the length of her vaginal canal increases that way, is higher, thus less pain.
#230. Downward Dog
But, if she is on the outside with her butt being too broadened while sinking her back lower and lower by pressing it, as the space between her thighs and legs widens, the length of her vaginal canal reduces. This means the probability that the penis is going to be hitting the fundus of the uterus, is high. Thus more pain.
#472. Pinwheel
A man should, therefore, let a woman decide how broad and low on her doggy style she want to go, based on the level of pain she is enduring. Downward dog position or low doggy might be creative, but if hardcore, it is painful, especially, to smaller women.
Bigger Penis Dilemma
But, if you have a big or long penis, even though it is painful for a woman, you also want to have fun without having to worry that you are hurting your woman.
So, you also need to have at least 70% (if not all) of your penis inside.
#454. Worship
If you don’t do so, depending on the strength of your erection, you might end up losing most of your erection as you won’t have the warmth you would get by being fully inside, if, especially more than a half of your penis is outside. The dilemma, however, by being fully inside, is, the pain the woman is enduring.
#372. Multiply Pleasure
But you can mitigate the problem by adapting your penis size with your fucking style by deciding to be an emotional fucker where you fuck to enjoy and not fuck to destroy!
The ‘I am gonna fuck you kaput’ mentality has to stop!
Penises which are weapons of mass destructions should be implemented with care. If you want to make your woman happy, even though 'she asked for it’ by specifically looking for a bigger penis, which is why she selected you, have mercy on her and fuck her with care!
#340. Сhili dog
Fuck slowly. Like this, you will both be happy!
If you fuck her too hard, chances are that she will go kaput and forgo sex for some times after the session. If you fuck her nice, easy and slow the chance that she will ask for more within hours is high!
So, do you want regular or an irregular sex?
#260. Tight Squeeze
Woman Moving Her Assets
Doggy style is a position of seducers and dominators!
While the woman should seduce submissively, the guy should dominate. The guy, therefore, is supposed to be fucking and bossing, unlike on cowgirl where the woman is the boss and the fucker.
So cowgirl is an enjoyer and a doer thing, where she is the doer and he is the enjoyer!
#273. Cave
Hence, men should stop expecting women to move and friction during doggy because not all women can take control and move their butts with pleasure, at the same time, during the act.
She can, if she is skilful, but not necessarily.
#164. Frog
If you manage to get yourself on the frog position, whether the guy is squatting or kneeling, depending on your stamina and the surface you are having sex on, (by the way, for good sex, try to have hard and not soft mattress, and a stable bed with robust slated frame, with which duckboards are among the best), he can move backwards putting his arms wider than his shoulder for support as she squats and sit on his dick while leaning forward on with her hands, on the floor, to support herself. He doesn’t need to do a thing but watch and enjoy the perfect penetration view as she moves her ass seductively, whether slowly to and fro or twerk, if she can.
Other possible positions are towards the reverse cowgirl such as the leopard, backwards cowgirl and clapper positions. That way she can move her buttocks, otherwise he is the boss!
Creativeness On Doggy Style
#272. Brazilian Capoeira
With creativeness, doggy style is very broad that a man can base his whole sex personality or sex session just on fucking from behind, that is, if he is an ass junky, and has brain stamina to withstand nice ass for long without ejaculating.
#253. Unique styles
There are wide range of possibilities, from soft to hardcore sex from behind where the guy starts by being emotional with that simple doggy style building it up towards the fine honeymoon position to the concubine as she becomes more submissive while he gets wilder to the dominating superpower he is supposed to be!
One Knee Doggy
Sometimes I think men getting down on one knee should be left for marriage proposals.
#295. Iron throne
Actually, some men like to fuck their doggy on one knee. However, the truth of the matter is that most women don’t feel their penises that way, as a penis is felt better when sliding in through the vaginal canal. Penetrating on one knee, the penis won’t be touching the canal as it should, while the woman's feelings are there.
#92. Screwdriver
Moreover, fucking on such an angle, most portion of the penis will remain outside and especially for guys with smaller penises, they won’t be felt. Those with bigger penises on the other hand can cause pain as the fuck will be hitting the vaginal wall, which is painful, instead, in comparison to the normal 0815 doggy style, where the penetration is sliding in and out of the vaginal canal without any uncontrolled hitting.
#363. Young stallion
If a man uses too much pressure and misses the canal he might end up hitting the labia majora with force causing pain on both parties including breaking of condoms or even the penis. Others end up going unplanned straight anal, which is very painful.
If that happens, she will become paranoid having phobia, an irrational fear of it happening again that she won’t enjoy the sex, nor with him ever again, due to fear.
#374. Inseminator
But women in such a situation can always place a 'vagina welfare-check’ finger near the entry of their vaginal canal, or close their assholes with one hand during sex, which should redirect the penis to re-enter the vaginal canal once they feel like the guy has no fucking control. Also, it is a way to check whether the condom is still ok. Also they can stop and ask for a safer position.
But this won’t happen if the guy follow the rule of making sure that always at least 30% of his dick remains inside during the 'in and out' friction.
Extra-ordinary Experimental Positions
Snowflake… 0815 doggy style was yesterday! You wanna move from just being a turtle to becoming a cowboy or even a wild bulldog?
No problem. As long as you are creative and have the stamina for that!
#190. Cowboy
Positions such as cowboy while on a doggy where the man is squatting behind her, bending his knees as he drives them as much apart as possible, is interesting. However, it is difficult and dangerous, especial if the guy has to use a condom. This is because depending on the angle he is penetrating in, it might increase condom’s vulnerability, causing it to break. Also, as the penis is coming from above downwards to penetrate the vaginal canal (I don’t know how they manage), it might be difficult to penetrate well, causing it to hit the entry of the vaginal canal, which can be painful depending on the amount of pressure exerted.
Bulldog is another interesting position. But, sometime it should be avoided.
Bending too much towards the woman has some disadvantages. This position will reduce the size of your penis that the woman is getting just a smaller portion of it, as there is a vacuum created between the genitals, while men should try as much as possible to have the biggest portion of their penises inside. So, this position doesn’t allow you to penetrate fully.
Also, with time, the penis will get too small that it will fly out of the vaginal canal.
So, if you face such difficulties you can start re-orienting downwards, moving towards Snowdrop position by start getting lower and lower, as she moves herself to lie forward on her stomach, which is a nice position for both. Here, the guy can fuck relaxed, saving energy through spooning, if he wants to, before starting to experimenting with other extreme sideways positions like Creme brûlée and co.
The Fucking Velocity, Vivacity And Momentum
If a man has a long penis, he should re-consider his speed of fucking. Fucking too fast will be too hard and painful. The momentum of fucking back and forth plays a role, which is determined by how far out one is going, and then back in again, also known as the bouncing rate.
The far out you go, the faster you do it; the bigger the sway, the more painful it is!
#116. Reverse Cowboy
It is based on the archery theory, where the wider you pull the bow, the faster and the further the arrow will go!
The Three Main Ways to Cum
The bouncing rate might be determined by other factors such as emotions. Most emotional people uses their emotions to cum, other uses fantasies, while hardcore men use speed and friction to cum, which is painful, but they don’t care. Others like to see how their penises slides in and out, and that's why they get too far outside and then back again, which might be unnecessary, unless the act makes you horny to keep and increase your erection, but then consider the speed!
#21. Snowdrop
Asscheeks Separation and Knee-Elbow Proposition
When a guy decide to be in the middle, broadening the woman’s asscheeks on her knee-elbow position driving her legs far apart as she straightens her body with her head facing down; should be done with care, especially how far apart should her asscheeks be separated.
#86. Forbidden Fruit
Too wide apart of asscheeks separation, especially if the skin is too dry can cause a razor cutting pain on the edges between the asscheeks, which is painful and uncomfortable, since the injury can last for a very long time when combined with asshole licking or rimming (rim-job on her).
#345. Pie in the sky
Stimulating While Fucking
Some men want too much while on a doggy position. They want to fuck, while spanking, fingering, touching, hitting the breasts and kissing, all at once.
..and I used to think multi-tasking was a woman thing. What a cliché!
Fingering asshole while on a doggy style can cause distraction on both parties as most women hate fingers in their assholes and most men aren’t able to multitask, thus they can’t perform well to penetrate their dick fingering the woman’s asshole, at the same time.
But if you insist on to fingering then be gentle because ass skin is very sensitive and no one wants pain in the ass after sex!
#236. Concubine
Fingering pussy will depend on how long the guys arms are and the type of doggy selected.
It is possible if the woman isn’t too low and even better when she is on her twos, and not on her fours. Otherwise, men can direct their women to play with their pussies themselves during the sexual intercourse, including vibrating themselves to climax, at the same time.
Thus, ending the sex with a bang!
Sometimes it is better to do one thing after another, and only things which are realistic to the position one is in. Concentrate on visualising, the view, massaging the ass if you like it, penetration tempo, maybe pausing in between to prevent yourself from cuming too fast then continue.
If you pause and loose your erection just use one of your hand to massage your penis, what you do while masturbating, while using the other one to massage your partners ass on a doggy and you will get hard and re-enter and continue.
Erection Degree
Whether the woman should be on her fours or on her twos sometimes depends on the degree of the man’s erection.
While we expect men’s erection to be a flexible 90°, there are men with inflexible 20-45° erection.
#470. Relaxation
How can a man with an inflexible below 45° erection perform sexually, with such an erection, which clearly take his flexibility away?
This erection takes men’s sexual flexibility in many positions, including cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, and doggie style, as well, as they will be better off with just missionary.
But who wants to be just a 0815 fucker?
Image: homeschoolmath
Thus, while majority of these men might be unable to enjoy reverse cowgirl and have to stick with just cowgirl, to manage to penetrate on a doggy style, as in fucking from behind, these men need to try to position their women on non-classical doggy position where instead of them being on their fours with the classical knee-elbow position, they should both be on their twos, both on their knees with her back in front of him as he penetrate upwards on the Ice Cream, Lap Dance and the Oath positions, or even Venus, while standing.
#82. Venus
These positions are, in fact, very emotional as partners can kiss, caress, play with the teats, as he will automatically fuck slower, as well!
Also, with such an erection, the guy can penetrate easier by trying to be much lower than her, by sitting on his legs to make sure that his genitals are below hers.
#4. Clapper
Thus, depending on the woman’s height, if her genitals are lower than his, while on his knees, whether his knees are together or apart, he can sit on his heels to make sure that his genitals are lower than hers like, on the Ice Cream, Lap Dance or Cave positions.
#273. Cave
Penis Size Management
If you have a big penis, you seem to have flexibility on most positions including doggy. But men with bigger penis have other problems of their own.
Men with shorter penis need to position themselves in a way that a woman can feel the dick, which would be the position where most of their dick is deep in her. The best way is to lean your back backwards on a Frog position-way while pushing your ass and penis forward so that most of your penis can penetrate. Otherwise, half of your penis might be useless, if you don’t position yourself well.
119. Barberry 107. Scorpio
Whether to sit on your legs or just on your knees it will also depend on the size and the shape of the woman’s ass.
Whether standing or just on your knees it will depend on your preference. But lying on top is an option, especially for men with shorter dicks. So the shorter the dick is, the more you should push forward to make sure all that the dick is inside.
Using a pillow beneath the woman’s genitals like on the Barberry and Scorpio position is another way to help penetrate deeper.
Legs Stability
Before starting the penetration you need to ask yourselves these questions:
How comfortable is your position?
How stable are your feet on the floor or surface whether on your knees or standing?
How sustainable is the position you selected if you are aiming to cum?
#243. Plow
When you decide to stand, avoid standing on slippery floors or uncomfortable surfaces. Avoid uncomfortable unsustainable positions when you are aiming to ejaculate.
If you decide to go for the Eiffel Tower, Leapfrog, or Bicycle positions and you want to cum, how long can you withstand the position? How much stamina do you both have?
If you risk loosing your strength halfway climaxing it will be too bad as you will have to start all-over again and it will take extremely long to ejaculate.
Thus, avoid positioning yourselves in a way which will be undoable midway through the sex, or which will make you tired very fast.
For a good climax, make sure to select a sustainable position. Make sure the person who is in the middle has legs together and stable.
#337. Dutch oven
Avoid criss-crossing legs in a way that each person’s one leg is in the middle, such that man’s leg-woman’s leg- man’s leg -woman’s leg. The legs should be positioned in a pattern of either man’s-leg-woman’s-leg-woman’s-leg- then man’s-leg; or woman’s-leg-man’s-leg -man’s-leg then woman’s-leg.
Bed And Heels Height For Standing Doggy
Stability is also based on bed’s height. The height of your bed plays a role on the quality of your doggy style, especially if the guy is standing.
Having a platform to create different height levels is good to manage the doggy heights.
As you can see, I have two different levels on my bed, for shorter and taller people.
If I fuck with a shorter guy, for a standing doggy as I kneel on my bed, he will stand on the platform side, which is bed’s sideway. If I am having sex with a taller guy, he would have to stand on the front side, under the platform. Others use the platform to place one foot/leg higher as the other leg remains lower, depending on the person’s preference and the bed’s positioning.
Otherwise high-heels will do the heights matching!